Many persons have a lot of negativity in their lives. They think and behave negatively. They only see the dark side of life. Their viewing angle is mostly negative. In this case, the personality becomes negative, which will result in a negative energy. Research shows that high negativity means lower happiness level. Negative persons tend to complain most of the time about anything whether it is about their relationships, jobs, or life. Negative people are usually pessimistic and develop a sense of doom. And this pattern of negative thinking will move from one generation to another as we can witness in many countries worldwide. They are not fun to be around. They don't enjoy life. It is better to stay away from negative people so as not to influence you unconsciously. Negative energy can move from one person to another by way of the aura and electromagnetic waves.
Question: How to become more positive?
It takes time to develop a negative personality and so is developing positive character. There are tools that enable us to develop positive personality. The start of positivity lies in our thinking. Thinking leads to behavior which in turn develops and shapes the personality. Therefore, to develop a positive personality it needs first to develop positive thinking. Positive thinking starts when you change your viewing lens, when you begin to see the bright side of life. This way you can become more objective in your assessment of things. It is a mental exercise which means you need to repeat it every day. You begin by seeing the positive side of any event. If you encounter any negative experience, stop and ask yourself this question: Does this bad experience have any positive side? Some events look negative but remember that almost all of them have a learning experience which means you learn from it and use that lesson for the future. Some hard experiences are useful for building your personality, or making your core invulnerable. Even failure has its positive side, as it is a much better teacher than success. Studying success patterns, we know that almost all successful persons encountered failure many times before they became successful. Some of them consider failure as a prerequisite for success. Failure in this point of view can be seen as positive. Remember that once you begin to think positively, you will begin to follow the law of attraction, meaning you start to attract that thing in your life. Repeat this kind of positive thinking on a daily basis, and then you will start to develop positive personality which will ultimately be reflected in positive behaviors.
You can become positive by focusing on positive things of life. One useful way is to feel a higher level of gratitude inside yourself. This positive feeling of gratitude will increase your general positivity level more than expected. Another tool for positivity is to be around positive people, and avoid negative people by all means. Stay away from negative friends. If your partner is negative, stay away from him/her unless they can change. Don't waste your life on negative experiences. Model positive people and do what they usually do in terms of their habits and behaviors. Modeling success can create success. Do not follow negative thoughts once they develop inside you. Once you walk on the positive road, you will find that many positive events are appearing in front of. These universal laws will begin to take effect on you, positively. Start your positive life today.
Brian Tracy had this great quote "Winners make a habit of manufacturing their own positive expectations in advance of the event."
We all can change for the better. We first need the conscious decision. We first need to want the change. It is a conscious choice. You can become positive once you allow the law of attraction to work on you, and that will happen the moment you think positively.
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