Do you know that many people suffer needlessly with shyness? Do you know that individuals are literally hypnotized into this self conscious straight jacket early in life? Finally, do you know that now it is possible to completely and permanently wake up from this nightmarish trance and become a self confident, self assured, socially competent and empowered human being? Want to learn why this is now possible for you too?
Shyness can manifest as social anxiety, self consciousness, and feelings of insecurity, vulnerability, inadequacy, embarrassment, humiliation and shame in social situations that can lead to the total avoidance of social interaction. This often leaves the shy person feeling worthless, frustrated, weak, alone, defective, flawed, useless, unattractive, paralyzed, inadequate, hopeless, stuck, unfulfilled, needy, and depressed.
Shyness is rooted in subconsciously programmed beliefs or feelings that many individuals rarely become aware of such as:
1. There is something deeply wrong with me.
2. I'm unlovable, worthless and useless.
3. I'm inadequate and a loser.
4. I'm totally unattractive.
5. People think I'm odd.
6. A need to be loved appreciated or liked.
7. A deep fear of rejection or abandonment.
8. A fear of humiliation.
9. A fear of behaving in inappropriate needy ways.
10. A fear of looking stupid.
And much more.
So how does shyness start and what can be done about it, you ask?
Well let me employ a metaphor. Suppose you go to a stage hypnotist show and are chosen as one of the subjects. While on stage the hypnotist gives you hypnotic suggestions such as: You are weak, unlovable, inadequate, unwanted, weird, awkward, odd etc...
After you leave the show these suggestions remain implanted deep in your subconscious mind.
From that point on you find yourself feeling vulnerable whenever you interact with others. This vulnerability has associated with it some unfamiliar feelings such as: a fear of being rejected, fear of looking or behaving in foolish or awkward ways, a deep feeling of inferiority or inadequacy, a fear that everyone around you thinks there is something wrong with you, a paralyzing anxiety that clouds your mind, ability to speak and makes it almost impossible for you to relax, be your spontaneous self and enjoy socializing with others.
Well, what you are experiencing is what many refer to as shyness.
What you may also now realize is that it is driven and rooted in those hypnotically implanted suggestions i.e. what I call "negative self beliefs".
Now you are fortunate because many of these negative suggestions will soon dissolve and disappear freeing you up to become your natural confident and spontaneous self.
A person who actually suffers from shyness, I too had been one for most of my early adult life, has had such negativity "downloaded" into the subconscious mind by early negative experiences such as abuse, neglect, abandonment, humiliation, failure, bullying etc...
These kinds of experiences, unlike simple hypnotically induced suggestions, remain fixed and impenetrable for long periods of time because they are supported by the negative memories of the events I just mentioned. Now because memories cannot (until now) be permanently and completely deleted that essentially leaves such individuals totally and perpetually imprisoned in their negative self beliefs and therefore their shyness.
A decade ago while exploring the nature of negative memories and how they are stored within the mind/body it was realized that simply by analyzing the ways they supposedly benefit us that they could be completely and permanently erased. As this was done individuals who suffered with such things as shyness, as well as many other limiting issues, began to become progressively and completely freed up from these crippling problems.
Many began to feel like their confident, empowered, authentic, relaxed, socially competent selves again and actually forgot what it meant or felt like to experience shyness at all.
As difficult as this is to fathom or believe it has helped to give many individuals their lives back.
So if you are one of those individuals who has been imprisoned and limited by shyness and you would like to finally be free kindly visit the web site below where you can request a free introductory telephone or Skype coaching consultation that will begin to take you there today.
Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor, is an International Expert Life, Relationship and Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).
A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Coaching Consultation And Free Copy of My E-book are available upon request (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)
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